BDSM stories
by the Master
Since 2016, the dominus has been spilling all the beans on a regular basis: He not only talks about his fascinating profession, but also about BDSM topics in general and the political situation for sex workers. For a long time he wrote regularly for BOX Magazine, recently his column has been published monthly in HIM Magazine. His stories can also be read in BDSM publications like Schlagzeilen or erotic magazines for women like Séparée.
Newsletter (English)
09/2023 Starting out as a (male) sex worker
My crucial (cross-gender) tip for beginners in sex work: I always try to go into a sexual flow and have fun with the job - no matter how the meeting develops. That keeps people coming back, because clients want ... More
Discrimination: Why I WILL NOT attend Folsom 2023
It's really fascinating how every time there's a need to "clean up" in sex positive spheres, they start with the hookers first. More
05/2023 The BDSM Game Of Stamina
Fynn is new to BDSM, but his motivation is clear: to serve me. In doing so, he shows an appealing stamina... More
04/2023 BDSM Beginner With Stamina
"BDSM Beginner" published 05/2023 in the magazine HIM BDSM Beginner With Stamina There he stands in front of me. Naked and nervous, his hands dutifully behind his back as requested. Fynn – slender body, pierced ... More
04/2023 Interview With „Schwulissimo“ About Sex Work & BDSM
The Dominus in a candid interview with the high-circulation magazine Schwulissimo. Read my thoughts on sex work, morality and the reputation of BDSM within the LGBTI* community. More
03/2023 Male Dominance – Cliché and Tipps
Male dominance oscillates between applause and rejection. Dominant women tend to be celebrated, but a woman may not want to take the submissive position. My thoughts in this brief blog. More
03/2023 A flashback to 2016 – My first set card at a domina studio
When I think about how many BDSM profiles I've created all over Germany... Phew. So let's flashback to 2016: This is the very first set card I made for a dominatrix studio. Take a look! More
03/2023 List Of My Preferred Games As A Dom
Looking for a Berlin Dom and curious about what I offer? Here is a quick and clear overview of games I enjoy as a Dom as well as my hard limits. More
02/2023 Sex Work – Looking Back On 10 Years
Looking back after 10 years, two of them under Corona, I focus on queer sex work, give concrete numbers and highlight the danger of the sex purchase ban, with comments from Kristina Marlen and queer activist Margot ... More
10/2022 What Is Spanking
Why is spanking one of my favorite practices? What excites me so much about spanking willing butts to increase the pleasure of both play partners? More
08/2022 Straight Men Belong on a Leash!
Straight men belong on a leash! At least that's what my very straight guest craves. Discover how our very first session plays out... More
11/2021 A Ds Couple in the Chains of a Sling
Watching a master and his slave in the sling? Not something I do often. I definitely prefer private sessions. But sometimes, a DS couple comes to me and I provide new ideas... with Tom and Kai, I used the sling to ... More
07/2021 Forced BDSM: The Desire for Coercion
Can forced BDSM work? Discover what happens when DennisXL submits to me. More
06/2021 Desire for Leather
I'm a big fan of leather and leather clothing. It makes me feel stronger and reinforced my dominant effect. Come along as I select the stunning leather jacket you see in so many images. More
05/2021 Prison Role Play – „Go To Jail!“
When they say "Go to jail!" in Monopoly, you're in for a very restricted round. While the deprivation of freedom is the most characteristic feature of a prison, the accompanying humiliations are even more painful: ... More
02/2021 Feminization and Gender Play
What is feminization, what types of feminization are there and what attracts heterosexual men a genderplay with dominas? My female colleagues provide answers. More
11/2020 Sex Work In Germany: We Need To Talk!
Germany keeps trying to eradicate sex work, most recently brazenly under the guise of the Corona crisis. My opinion? Discrimination! More
06/2020 The Perfidious Interrogation Role Play
Interrogation role play – a very stimulating situation, especially with guests who are actors. Two policemen, a suspect, a domina studio. What happens? More
05/2020 From Exhibitionism to Cuddling
Today I'm going for a walk with my dog Olaf - because exhibitionism is a big kink for me. Read here how the visit to Insomnia went. More
04/2020 From Ponyplay to Dogplay: Fascination Petplay
Dogplay, ponyplay... all describe role-playing games in which the submissive part "becomes" the animal. One of the biggest prejudices about petplay is that it is essentially sexual acts in animal costumes. This is ... More
03/2020 Of Cozy TV Evenings and Latex Play
I love playing with latex. Olaf, my dog and latex fetishist, also likes this rubberized tightness - how we play, you can find out here. More
02/2020 Medical Role Play and Medical Kink
Why is medical role play so appealing? With or without humiliation, clinic games make you vulnerable. This can be highly erotic, as I find time and time again with my clients.... More
01/2020 Power Games – Risky and rewarding
What are power games and why do we enjoy them so much? Far from clichés, I explain why clients want to surrender...or dominate. More
12/2019 Breath Play – The Appeal of Breath Control
Breath play as an erotic game requires a lot of trust but can lead to incredible climaxes. How do my clients experience it? Read on and find out... More
11/2019 A Male Sexworker’s Opinion on the Nordic Model
Nordic model to the rescue? Absolutely not! I explain why the introduction of the so-called Swedish model in Germany would be dangerous... More
10/2019 Nipple Play, My Favorite Game
Clamps, vacuum pumps, or with your mouth: I love torturing nipples and tormenting my submissive You can find my tips for nipple play here... More
08/2019 CBT and Pain to Enhance Pleasure
I get very creative when it comes to CBT: CBT is short for Cock Ball Training and is used to enhance the pleasure of submissive partners. More
05/2019 Dirty Games: Thoughts and session report
What is caviar in a BDSM context? Dirty games with excrement offer a very special attraction for human toilets. Here you can learn more... More
04/2019 Dental Fetish – Session Replay
A white coat, a dentist's chair... my first Dental Fetish guest lies before me. Read about motivation, backgrounds, and practices in the session replay. More
03/2019 Sheer Sox – Nylons For The Man
It's crazy nice how many fetishes there are. A demand for Sheer Sox is rare, but for Peter, they are a must in every meeting with me... More
02/2019 Dirty Talk with Dominus Berlin
Verbal eroticism is an essential part of BDSM. Sure, there are silent connoisseurs, but I love dirty talk. Just like my slave Ben ... More
01/2019 Slaves Locked Up
From the outside, being locked up is a bizarre fetish: I put the slave away and do .... nothing. In this guest post, I'll show you how and why. More
12/2018 Anal Games and Fisting
The charms of anal play go from fingers to toys to the extreme: Fisting. How does a session play? How do I it? You'll find out in this session blog. More
11/2018 Wax Play – Tips for Beginners and Pros
Wax pay is a wonderful way to drive a submissive partner out of his mind. Wax play tips for beginners and advanced players can be found here... More
10/2018 Overtime at Folsom Europe
So much happens when you visit Folsom Europe. From the VIP booth into the crowd, with a slave into the dark room and like-minded people everywhere. I wonder what went on there? More
09/2018 Manservant of a Dominant Couple
Being a manservant to a dominant couple in 1890 has its charms. As a manservant, you are property. What the couple does with you is up to them... More
08/2018 The Fuck Machine
If you like anal stimulation and dildos, you will love the fuck machine. Just like Dietmar, whose intense session I describe here.... More
07/2018 Smoking – Vice & Fetish
Since my youth I indulge in another vice: smoking. As a Dominus, I can certainly incorporate this into sessions. Because smoking is also fetish... More
06/2018 Boots – The gay man’s high heels
High heels may be exciting on women - but when the SM master puts on his boots, many of his subs go crazy. Like Sascha in this session... More
05/2018 Double Play – Between Two Leather Men
Double play occurs frequently in BDSM. How do Master Andreas and I interact when we get to humiliate a sub together? Discover the answer in this blog... More
04/2018 Gangbang with a Woman
When a wealthy couple asked me to organize a gangbang for the wife, I quickly found willing play partners. How does a gangbang work? Here I go into detail... More
03/2018 Dogplay with Master Alexander
Together with Master Andre we explore dogplay for the first time. Discover what happens when the passive part is only allowed to say "woof". More
02/2018 Findom and Cashslavery
Cashslavery and Findom are frowned upon, so once again I'm clearing up prejudices. How does Findom work and what attracts the passive to Cashslavery? Find out... More
12/2017 Soft SM and Golden Shower
BDSM can also be enjoyed without whip cracking and extreme bondage. Soft SM has a special charm, as does a golden shower. Read more in this session replay... More
11/2017 Body Odor Fetish
While I myself am quite clean, some of my slaves love an intense body odor. How I prepare myself and how a session goes, I tell you here... More
10/2017 Intoxicating Tightness Of The Bondage Bag
The intoxicating tightness in a bondage bag, especially one made of leather... My client Hannes loves it more than anything. Here I share how the session goes... More
09/2017 Full-Time Slavery
Submitting to a master for hours, days, or weeks at a time is the dream of many slaves. However, full-time slavery comes with its own set of challenges. What exactly is total submission and how does the dynamic work? More
08/2017 White Eroticism: Doctor Games
The gods in white have an erotic charm... but examinations also have their appeal. This session blog is about doctor games... More
07/2017 Forced Bi – The Secret Fantasy of the Heterosexual Man
What is it like when the good heterosexual slave faces a dominatrix and a dominus? This is how a Forced Bi session can go... More
05/2017 Submissive Subs – Why Is Sadomasochism So Hot?
Do you find sadomasochism as hot as I do? Let's talk about the different kinds of sado-masochism and how to play with them. More
05/2017 A Boy and the Passion for Feet
there are many wonderful body parts to have fun with in fetish life. One often-forgotten object of affection is our feet. The foot fetish is popular: No other part of my body gets as much attention as them. Today's ... More
04/2017 Beguiling Play For All Senses With Rubber Clothing
While latex conquers the clothing fetish charts in the women's world, rubber is second only to leather in the gay scene. How such a rubber session goes and how stimulating it is, I tell you here. More
03/2017 Uniform Fetish – The Appeal of Military Clothing
When I shared photos in military uniform, I soon received a request for role play. Uniform fetish in perfection... what a session! You can find all the details here... More
02/2017 Cuckolding – Humiliation and Jealousy
My guest today has cuckolding fantasies - meaning he gets excited when his partner has sex with another man. In this case with me... More
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03/2023 List Of My Preferred Games As A Dom
Looking for a Berlin Dom and curious about what I offer? Here is a quick and clear overview of games I enjoy as a Dom as well as my ... More
05/2023 The BDSM Game Of Stamina
Fynn is new to BDSM, but his motivation is clear: to serve me. In doing so, he shows an appealing stamina... More
06/2020 The Perfidious Interrogation Role Play
Interrogation role play – a very stimulating situation, especially with guests who are actors. Two policemen, a suspect, a domina ... More