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03/2023 A flashback to 2016 – My first set card at a domina studio

When I think about how many BDSM profiles I’ve created all over Germany… Phew. So let’s flashback to 2016: This is the very first set card for a domina studio. 

My first set card for a domina studio 2016

Here’s an English version of the texts. Go ahead and read…

Favorite activities during a session:

I am very open-minded, although I must say I’m particularly fond of nipple treatment. I can tease and torture them for hours…

Current favorite toy:

Electrical stimulation – every aspect of it

What type of Dom are you?

Well, I receive many requests from newcomers. I think this has to do with the fact that I don’t do the whole “spanking you in a dirty, black-painted basement” number; which my pictures show. Contrary to many other male doms, I take a more elegant and sophisticated approach. I believe that my slaves feel safer with me due to this. And feeling safe is important when you want to let yourself go.

What makes you unique?

People describe me time and time again as remarkably empathetic and I’m often told that I have exceedingly good communication skills. Never underestimate the meaning of verbal action! Recently, a slave claimed, “it’s obvious why you’ve specialized yourself: it’s just your thing!” That’s how I know I’m on the right track.

What does dominance / submission / fetish mean to you?

Easy: Power, as well as exercising control and above all, observing how much pleasure it brings to others. I get goosebumps when I see and feel how I create this beautiful imbalance through my own two hands. Beyond that, the trust that I receive in advance as a dom fills me with positive emotions. I like to keep the fetishists waiting in suspense before I allow the reunion with their beloved. The power in this game excites me.

What do you love about SM?

For me, it isn’t just important to drive my counterpart to the edge (and a tiny bit over it), but also to explore my own limitations on a daily basis. I’m rarely all about the physical aspects; the psychological approach is crucial to me. This is why my play pals are delighted that I always look them in the eyes. But of course, I’m also a sadist who loves finding the pain barrier and “playing” with my power.

How I created a set card for a domina studio

In my private life, I’ve been following my tendencies in the SM area for far longer than on a professional basis.

At one point, I ended up sharing an apartment with a domina by chance. One thing lead to another and, eventually, everything fell into place. To this day, the female influence still affects my approach to dominance. I therefore also like to play together with female dominas, if the play partner has bisexual tendencies. In this regard, I can already look back on many years of experience.

In comparison to a lot of other doms, I discipline on a steady basis and not just in between, or according to the current living situation. You can recognize a professional and respectable dom by the fact that he doesn’t pop up with different profiles and names, only to then disappear again, into the vast depths of the internet. He values a perennial reputation.

I can also happily say that I’ve already done “everything” that’s within the legal limits. And I won’t go beyond them.

Why do I mention this? As an important note for all my slaves, or for those who wish to become such: You can’t shock me.

Open up!

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