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by the Master

Since 2016, the dominus has been spilling all the beans on a regular basis: He not only talks about his fascinating profession, but also about BDSM topics in general and the political situation for sex workers. For a long time he wrote regularly for BOX Magazine, recently his column has been published monthly in HIM Magazine. His stories can also be read in BDSM publications like Schlagzeilen or erotic magazines for women like Séparée.

Newsletter (English)

02/2024 Meeting THE Dominus

02/2024 Meeting THE Dominus

Recently, Master and I where in Berlin where we had the honor of meeting THE Dominus, Master André. This made me nervous as hell. But not only that, also that we where invited at his place and later, I would end up ... More

01/2024 Fucking Principles – who’s topping who and why?

01/2024 Fucking Principles – who’s topping who and why?

We have certain patriarchal stereotypical principles within us, reproduce them and also repeatedly inserting ourselves, our sexual partners and our environment. But where do these stereotypes come from? More

11/2023 Penis Pump: Total Loss of Control

11/2023 Penis Pump: Total Loss of Control

However I pleased, I kept pumping his cock to the maximum, teasing and fondling it, letting him "cool down" again and then also caressed him from time to time. His cock, his pleasure, whether he was allowed to cum ... More

09/2023 Starting out as a (male) sex worker

09/2023 Starting out as a (male) sex worker

My crucial (cross-gender) tip for beginners in sex work: I always try to go into a sexual flow and have fun with the job - no matter how the meeting develops. That keeps people coming back, because clients want ... More

Discrimination: Why I WILL NOT attend Folsom 2023

Discrimination: Why I WILL NOT attend Folsom 2023

It's really fascinating how every time there's a need to "clean up" in sex positive spheres, they start with the hookers first. More

05/2023 The BDSM Game Of Stamina

05/2023 The BDSM Game Of Stamina

Fynn is new to BDSM, but his motivation is clear: to serve me. In doing so, he shows an appealing stamina... More

04/2023 BDSM Beginner With Stamina

04/2023 BDSM Beginner With Stamina

"BDSM Beginner" published 05/2023 in the magazine HIM  Klicke hier, um die deutsche Version zu lesen: 04/2023 BDSM Anfänger mit Durchhaltevermögen   BDSM Beginner With Stamina There he stands in front ... More

04/2023 Interview With „Schwulissimo“ About Sex Work & BDSM

04/2023 Interview With „Schwulissimo“ About Sex Work & BDSM

The Dominus in a candid interview with the high-circulation magazine Schwulissimo. Read my thoughts on sex work, morality and the reputation of BDSM within the LGBTI* community. More

03/2023 Male Dominance – Cliché and Tipps

03/2023 Male Dominance – Cliché and Tipps

Male dominance oscillates between applause and rejection. Dominant women tend to be celebrated, but a woman may not want to take the submissive position. My thoughts in this brief blog. More

03/2023 A flashback to 2016 – My first set card at a domina studio

03/2023 A flashback to 2016 – My first set card at a domina studio

When I think about how many BDSM profiles I've created all over Germany... Phew. So let's flashback to 2016: This is the very first set card I made for a dominatrix studio. Take a look! More

03/2023 List Of My Preferred Games As A Dom

03/2023 List Of My Preferred Games As A Dom

Looking for a Berlin Dom and curious about what I offer? Here is a quick and clear overview of games I enjoy as a Dom as well as my hard limits. More

02/2023 Sex Work – Looking Back On 10 Years

02/2023 Sex Work – Looking Back On 10 Years

Looking back after 10 years, two of them under Corona, I focus on queer sex work, give concrete numbers and highlight the danger of the sex purchase ban, with comments from Kristina Marlen and queer activist Margot ... More

10/2022 What Is Spanking

10/2022 What Is Spanking

Why is spanking one of my favorite practices? What excites me so much about spanking willing butts to increase the pleasure of both play partners? More

08/2022 Straight Men Belong on a Leash!

08/2022 Straight Men Belong on a Leash!

Straight men belong on a leash! At least that's what my very straight guest craves. Discover how our very first session plays out... More

11/2021 A Ds Couple in the Chains of a Sling

11/2021 A Ds Couple in the Chains of a Sling

Watching a master and his slave in the sling? Not something I do often. I definitely prefer private sessions. But sometimes, a DS couple comes to me and I provide new ideas... with Tom and Kai, I used the sling to ... More

07/2021 Forced BDSM: The Desire for Coercion

07/2021 Forced BDSM: The Desire for Coercion

Can forced BDSM work? Discover what happens when DennisXL submits to me. More

06/2021 Desire for Leather

06/2021 Desire for Leather

I'm a big fan of leather and leather clothing. It makes me feel stronger and reinforced my dominant effect. Come along as I select the stunning leather jacket you see in so many images. More

05/2021 Prison Role Play – „Go To Jail!“

05/2021 Prison Role Play – „Go To Jail!“

Klicke hier, um die deutsche Version zu lesen: 05/2021 Züchtigendes Rollenspiel: Geh ins Gefängnis! When they say "Go to jail!" in Monopoly, you're in for a very restricted round. While the deprivation of ... More

02/2021 Feminization and Gender Play

02/2021 Feminization and Gender Play

What is feminization, what types of feminization are there and what attracts heterosexual men a genderplay with dominas? My female colleagues provide answers. More

11/2020 Sex Work In Germany: We Need To Talk!

11/2020 Sex Work In Germany: We Need To Talk!

Germany keeps trying to eradicate sex work, most recently brazenly under the guise of the Corona crisis. My opinion? Discrimination! More

06/2020 The Perfidious Interrogation Role Play

06/2020 The Perfidious Interrogation Role Play

Interrogation role play – a very stimulating situation, especially with guests who are actors. Two policemen, a suspect, a domina studio. What happens? More

05/2020 From Exhibitionism to Cuddling

05/2020 From Exhibitionism to Cuddling

Today I'm going for a walk with my dog Olaf - because exhibitionism is a big kink for me. Read here how the visit to Insomnia went. More

04/2020 From Ponyplay to Dogplay: Fascination Petplay

04/2020 From Ponyplay to Dogplay: Fascination Petplay

Klicke hier, um die deutsche Version zu lesen: 04/2020 Von Ponyplay bis Dogplay: Faszination Petplay Dogplay, ponyplay... all describe role-playing games in which the submissive part "becomes" the animal. One of ... More

03/2020 Of Cozy TV Evenings and Latex Play

03/2020 Of Cozy TV Evenings and Latex Play

I love playing with latex. Olaf, my dog and latex fetishist, also likes this rubberized tightness - how we play, you can find out here. More

02/2020 Medical Role Play and Medical Kink

02/2020 Medical Role Play and Medical Kink

Why is medical role play so appealing? With or without humiliation, clinic games make you vulnerable. This can be highly erotic, as I find time and time again with my clients.... More

01/2020 Power Games – Risky and rewarding

01/2020 Power Games – Risky and rewarding

What are power games and why do we enjoy them so much? Far from clichés, I explain why clients want to surrender...or dominate. More

12/2019 Breath Play – The Appeal of Breath Control

12/2019 Breath Play – The Appeal of Breath Control

Breath play as an erotic game requires a lot of trust but can lead to incredible climaxes. How do my clients experience it? Read on and find out... More

11/2019 A Male Sexworker’s Opinion on the Nordic Model

11/2019 A Male Sexworker’s Opinion on the Nordic Model

Nordic model to the rescue? Absolutely not! I explain why the introduction of the so-called Swedish model in Germany would be dangerous... More

10/2019 Nipple Play, My Favorite Game

10/2019 Nipple Play, My Favorite Game

Clamps, vacuum pumps, or with your mouth: I love torturing nipples and tormenting my submissive You can find my tips for nipple play here... More

08/2019 CBT and Pain to Enhance Pleasure

08/2019 CBT and Pain to Enhance Pleasure

I get very creative when it comes to CBT: CBT is short for Cock Ball Training and is used to enhance the pleasure of submissive partners. More

05/2019 Dirty Games: Thoughts and session report

05/2019 Dirty Games: Thoughts and session report

What is caviar in a BDSM context? Dirty games with excrement offer a very special attraction for human toilets. Here you can learn more... More

04/2019 Dental Fetish – Session Replay

04/2019 Dental Fetish – Session Replay

A white coat, a dentist's chair... my first Dental Fetish guest lies before me. Read about motivation, backgrounds, and practices in the session replay. More

03/2019 Sheer Sox – Nylons For The Man

03/2019 Sheer Sox – Nylons For The Man

It's crazy nice how many fetishes there are. A demand for Sheer Sox is rare, but for Peter, they are a must in every meeting with me... More

02/2019 Dirty Talk with Dominus Berlin

02/2019 Dirty Talk with Dominus Berlin

Verbal eroticism is an essential part of BDSM. Sure, there are silent connoisseurs, but I love dirty talk. Just like my slave Ben ... More

01/2019 Slaves Locked Up

01/2019 Slaves Locked Up

From the outside, being locked up is a bizarre fetish: I put the slave away and do .... nothing. In this guest post, I'll show you how and why. More

12/2018 Anal Games and Fisting

12/2018 Anal Games and Fisting

The charms of anal play go from fingers to toys to the extreme: Fisting. How does a session play? How do I it? You'll find out in this session blog. More

11/2018 Wax Play – Tips for Beginners and Pros

11/2018 Wax Play – Tips for Beginners and Pros

Wax pay is a wonderful way to drive a submissive partner out of his mind. Wax play tips for beginners and advanced players can be found here... More

10/2018 Overtime at Folsom Europe

10/2018 Overtime at Folsom Europe

So much happens when you visit Folsom Europe. From the VIP booth into the crowd, with a slave into the dark room and like-minded people everywhere. I wonder what went on there? More

09/2018 Manservant of a Dominant Couple

09/2018 Manservant of a Dominant Couple

Being a manservant to a dominant couple in 1890 has its charms. As a manservant, you are property. What the couple does with you is up to them... More

08/2018 The Fuck Machine

08/2018 The Fuck Machine

If you like anal stimulation and dildos, you will love the fuck machine. Just like Dietmar, whose intense session I describe here.... More

07/2018 Smoking – Vice & Fetish

07/2018 Smoking – Vice & Fetish

Since my youth I indulge in another vice: smoking. As a Dominus, I can certainly incorporate this into sessions. Because smoking is also fetish... More

06/2018 Boots – The gay man’s high heels

06/2018 Boots – The gay man’s high heels

High heels may be exciting on women - but when the SM master puts on his boots, many of his subs go crazy. Like Sascha in this session... More

05/2018 Double Play – Between Two Leather Men

05/2018 Double Play – Between Two Leather Men

Double play occurs frequently in BDSM. How do Master Andreas and I interact when we get to humiliate a sub together? Discover the answer in this blog... More

04/2018 Gangbang with a Woman

04/2018 Gangbang with a Woman

When a wealthy couple asked me to organize a gangbang for the wife, I quickly found willing play partners. How does a gangbang work? Here I go into detail... More

03/2018 Dogplay with Master Alexander

03/2018 Dogplay with Master Alexander

Together with Master Andre we explore dogplay for the first time. Discover what happens when the passive part is only allowed to say "woof". More

02/2018 Findom and Cashslavery

02/2018 Findom and Cashslavery

Cashslavery and Findom are frowned upon, so once again I'm clearing up prejudices. How does Findom work and what attracts the passive to Cashslavery? Find out... More

12/2017 Soft SM and Golden Shower

12/2017 Soft SM and Golden Shower

BDSM can also be enjoyed without whip cracking and extreme bondage. Soft SM has a special charm, as does a golden shower. Read more in this session replay... More

11/2017 Body Odor Fetish

11/2017 Body Odor Fetish

While I myself am quite clean, some of my slaves love an intense body odor. How I prepare myself and how a session goes, I tell you here... More

10/2017 Intoxicating Tightness Of The Bondage Bag

10/2017 Intoxicating Tightness Of The Bondage Bag

The intoxicating tightness in a bondage bag, especially one made of leather... My client Hannes loves it more than anything. Here I share how the session goes... More

09/2017 Full-Time Slavery

09/2017 Full-Time Slavery

Submitting to a master for hours, days, or weeks at a time is the dream of many slaves. However, full-time slavery comes with its own set of challenges. What exactly is total submission and how does the dynamic work? More

08/2017 White Eroticism: Doctor Games

08/2017 White Eroticism: Doctor Games

The gods in white have an erotic charm... but examinations also have their appeal. This session blog is about doctor games... More

07/2017 Forced Bi – The Secret Fantasy of the Heterosexual Man

07/2017 Forced Bi – The Secret Fantasy of the Heterosexual Man

What is it like when the good heterosexual slave faces a dominatrix and a dominus? This is how a Forced Bi session can go... More

05/2017 Submissive Subs – Why Is Sadomasochism So Hot?

05/2017 Submissive Subs – Why Is Sadomasochism So Hot?

Do you find sadomasochism as hot as I do? Let's talk about the different kinds of sado-masochism and how to play with them. More

05/2017 A Boy and the Passion for Feet

05/2017 A Boy and the Passion for Feet

there are many wonderful body parts to have fun with in fetish life. One often-forgotten object of affection is our feet. The foot fetish is popular: No other part of my body gets as much attention as them. Today's ... More

04/2017 Beguiling Play For All Senses With Rubber Clothing

04/2017 Beguiling Play For All Senses With Rubber Clothing

While latex conquers the clothing fetish charts in the women's world, rubber is second only to leather in the gay scene. How such a rubber session goes and how stimulating it is, I tell you here. More

03/2017 Uniform Fetish – The Appeal of Military Clothing

03/2017 Uniform Fetish – The Appeal of Military Clothing

When I shared photos in military uniform, I soon received a request for role play. Uniform fetish in perfection... what a session! You can find all the details here... More

02/2017 Cuckolding – Humiliation and Jealousy

02/2017 Cuckolding – Humiliation and Jealousy

My guest today has cuckolding fantasies - meaning he gets excited when his partner has sex with another man. In this case with me... More

02/2024 Meeting THE Dominus

Recently, Master and I where in Berlin where we had the honor of meeting THE Dominus, Master André. This made me nervous as hell. But not only that, also that we where invited at his place and later, I would end up totally vulnerable and exposed in front of two leather Doms…

01/2024 Fucking Principles – who’s topping who and why?

We have certain patriarchal stereotypical principles within us, reproduce them and also repeatedly inserting ourselves, our sexual partners and our environment. But where do these stereotypes come from?

11/2023 Penis Pump: Total Loss of Control

However I pleased, I kept pumping his cock to the maximum, teasing and fondling it, letting him „cool down“ again and then also caressed him from time to time. His cock, his pleasure, whether he was allowed to cum or not: all of that belonged to me.

09/2023 Starting out as a (male) sex worker

My crucial (cross-gender) tip for beginners in sex work: I always try to go into a sexual flow and have fun with the job – no matter how the meeting develops. That keeps people coming back, because clients want real feelings – not just actions.

Discrimination: Why I WILL NOT attend Folsom 2023

It’s really fascinating how every time there’s a need to „clean up“ in sex positive spheres, they start with the hookers first.

05/2023 The BDSM Game Of Stamina

Fynn is new to BDSM, but his motivation is clear: to serve me. In doing so, he shows an appealing stamina…

04/2023 BDSM Beginner With Stamina

"BDSM Beginner" published 05/2023 in the magazine HIM  Klicke hier, um die deutsche Version zu lesen: 04/2023 BDSM Anfänger mit Durchhaltevermögen   BDSM Beginner With Stamina There he stands in front of me. Naked and nervous, his hands dutifully behind his back...

04/2023 Interview With „Schwulissimo“ About Sex Work & BDSM

The Dominus in a candid interview with the high-circulation magazine Schwulissimo. Read my thoughts on sex work, morality and the reputation of BDSM within the LGBTI* community.

03/2023 Male Dominance – Cliché and Tipps

Male dominance oscillates between applause and rejection. Dominant women tend to be celebrated, but a woman may not want to take the submissive position. My thoughts in this brief blog.

03/2023 A flashback to 2016 – My first set card at a domina studio

When I think about how many BDSM profiles I’ve created all over Germany… Phew. So let’s flashback to 2016: This is the very first set card I made for a dominatrix studio. Take a look!

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05/2017 Submissive Subs – Why Is Sadomasochism So Hot?

Do you find sadomasochism as hot as I do? Let's talk about the different kinds of sado-masochism and how to play with them. More

09/2023 Starting out as a (male) sex worker

My crucial (cross-gender) tip for beginners in sex work: I always try to go into a sexual flow and have fun with the job - no matter ... More

09/2017 Full-Time Slavery

Submitting to a master for hours, days, or weeks at a time is the dream of many slaves. However, full-time slavery comes with its own ... More

02/2023 Sex Work – Looking Back On 10 Years

Looking back after 10 years, two of them under Corona, I focus on queer sex work, give concrete numbers and highlight the danger of ... More