Can BDSM work if one of the players only wants conditionally? Is it then a rape? Is it allowed and will it be horny? What is it like when BDSM and vanilla sex meet?
Over a year ago, shortly before the Corona crisis, I was persuaded by a regular customer to a session in a hotel. Along for the ride was porn star DennisXL: a tall, very athletic man with a handsome cock and a calm natural-masculine demeanor. When you meet a colleague in our trade, it’s usually because you’ve seen each other online many times before. The faces are often more familiar than those of your own family. It’s not uncommon for us callboys to book each other, whether it’s for our own compensation, to form a group for a well-groomed pack fuck, or simply because we want to know who’s behind the pictures.
Dennis and I understood each other right away and were also quickly aware of our intended roles: He gave the body-experience with all his beauty and caressed the customer as well as let him touch his beautiful body, while I was once again the perverted pig who takes his right with „dirty talk“ to sink his fist in the customer’s anus.
Dennis and I then decided to have a coffee after the session and got to know each other better. „Someday we’ll take photos together,“ he said, but I just waved it off: „Oh, what’s the point? My hobbyhorse is BDSM. That has just met here prima, but that a customer in the face wants a cuddle action and a fist from a master at the same time in the ass, is rather rare and would also look a bit funny on a picture. In pictures, you expect clear statements.“ „You may be right about that,“ Dennis said, sipping his coffee. I couldn’t help but admire the beautiful vein running across his biceps, already moving sexily as he lifted his coffee cup. „Unless you’d be submissive and deliciously maso for me, in the pictures, then we can work that out,“ I said with the most mischievous smile I had to offer. „I don’t really know about that, I’m more the boyfriend-experience type,“ he replied, and I noticed a spark of insecurity in the otherwise confident man.
The topic then simply fizzled out for the time being. But the other day it apparently did, because the following message reached me: „When we take our picture, it’s okay for me to be your sub“. I thought to myself: if I can put this little piece of shit over my knee and spank his firm, slightly hairy ass, then fuck the photos! Today, however, I’m glad he kept repositioning the camera and pressing the self-timer.
A game between professionals
Lightly dressed, Dennis arrives at my place with the most charming smile imaginable. While I struggle – as usual – for hours into the heavy leather, I see him immediately jumping around my apartment stark naked. Wonderful to see, how everything dangles there so beautifully slowly back and forth, between his legs. „We’ll start with a photo in the hallway. You stand behind me now, cuddle up lovingly to Daddy, and I take your cock in my hand, so you know right away who’s the boss here.“
Sure, we both smile a little at my announcement, but we are both aware of the latent eroticism through this burgeoning power differential. I realize later when I first look at the pictures that he has also actually just swept out the cute boy. Little by little, I introduce him to the submissive role: „You have to feel this, otherwise you just won’t radiate it. I’m going to bring you into the situation in a hands-on way. You take three slaps and then feel yourself into the role anew.“ He agrees. I take off one of my leather gloves, reach into his full hair, and slap him hard. He is only slightly surprised, but puts up with it. My second slap is coupled with a very angry expression on his face as well as the words, „You’re my little bitch now – remember that.“ The third and final blow just comes as a surprise, immediately after the second: „And now you’re going to hold your tight ass up to the camera so the world can look right up your hole in peace, too.“
He does it quite decently, but I’m not satisfied yet: „Both hands on the ass cheeks and pull the buttocks apart. Oh, leave it – I’d better do it myself.“ I notice how his original stiffness has turned into suppleness. He no longer smiles sheepishly, but lets me bend him slightly and please him much more.
You have nothing more to report!
„Now there are a few handcuffs, so that you feel even better that you have nothing more to report. The command tone comes with me calmly and routinely – that works. As I then pose with my face close to his well-groomed hole, I take a good look at his entrance. Inevitably, perverse thoughts arise in me: „So this is your horny column, which is so beautifully poked in porn by horny guys? Yummy!“ Immediately after pressing the self-timer, I check how exactly this column smells. Oh! Quite clean? So the little horny bitch has rinsed his fuck hole as a precaution. So, was probably nothing with „just take a little picture“? Okay, you can have that, but differently than you think it!
There is a video of the following scene; just click here and log in. There is plenty of BDSM porn for just 20,- €.
I tie his hands behind his back and throw him over my chair, so that his hole can look nicely into the camera. With a smile, I start flicking his beautiful rosette with my middle finger, so that you can always hear little clapping sounds. I see him twitch. It’s not really painful yet, but it prepares him well. „Let it twitch, your hole. Come on, show me how it can twitch!“ He tenses his sphincter a bit, and although there’s not much to see, I’m happy to see the command carried out. The leather paddle at the ready now comes into play and I aim the narrow side directly at his rosette. Now really comes movement in his muscular butt and I get more and more horny. According to the golden BDSM rule „carrot and stick“ his hole is alternately licked a bit and then beaten again. I drum now so with the leather paddle on his wet licked man pussy that I can already see the first pink discolorations in the skin around his rosette. How exciting! I now aim the paddle directly at the ass center and get horny on it, because of course this is a bit more painful for my newbie. As I continue, we really get to his limit and he twitches a little more. But only twitching is not enough for me personally, because despite the gag, the slut can still scream a bit for me. So I hit even harder until the tight ass finally comes out of the socket and starts to whimper. Very good, now Daddy is also really horny. A few more introductory games follow with his cock as well as with his balls.
Blow my cock!
There is also a video of the following scene; just click here and log in. There is plenty of BDSM porn for just 20,- €.
Finally I say to him: „Now you really have to blow my cock, otherwise I’ll explode right away! He goes dutifully before me on his knees. With great pleasure I take his beautiful face and press it on my cock. One look down and I realize that he has extended his big device and it is now stiff. My cock circles his face and his pretty mouth is nice and wide open, „You want it?“ He just nods, „I can’t hear you, do you want him?“ He now says loudly „Yes“ and gets to swallow my pipe directly as a reward. Gladly, I provoke his throat with my cock and push the head down hard, giving the handsome guy a nice gag reflex. His submissive look and his tongue sticking out on command also tempted me to cum right on it.
After a few minutes he has regained his composure and says as always matter-of-factly and dryly to me: „Yes, that was exciting. „Man, he’s cute – really! My conclusion: Yes, it is possible to approach BDSM together if there is latent interest. Empathy and clear announcements make it morally possible and then also promote an excellent orgasm, because here it is both about the mutual conquest and that both thereby find out something about themselves.
