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06/2018 Boots – The gay man’s high heels

It’s paradoxical that the least visible part of a person – his or her standing devices – receives so much attention in the sexual sphere. I have already written on the passion for bare feet. In addition to the exposed lowest part of the body, the clothing of the same also provides massive arousal: boots or socks.

In the area of socks, it is mainly the white sports socks – sometimes also in its worn state. If you want to give this element a special role in the game, you have to wear them for a certain period of time to give your beloved object foot odour. But I’ve also noticed a renaissance of enthusiasm for business socks among many of my students.

This is probably due to the fact that I’ve changed as a person, because while in my early days I was able to show the sporty side of me, I’m more comfortable in leather or a suit today. You’re not getting any younger *smile* and suits and leather harmonize brilliantly with the graying temples and nasolabial folds of a more mature man.

Boots as a fetish object

But back „downstairs“. In addition to the sport and business socks, there’s actually nylon for men: the sheer sox. For now, the focus of this column in the 300th issue of BoxMagazine is on the man’s most imposing footwear: the boot.

Whether the leather reaches up to the knees – or 10 centimeters below, as in the case of biker boots – or the leather takes on a wild pattern and shape, as in the case of cowboy boots, they all find aficionados in droves.

For cowboy boots, let’s mention the Sendra brand. When I post pictures of me wearing my Sendras, the comments on Facebook explode as the community of lovers seems to be boundless.

Boots clearly symbolize strength and power through their unity as well as their size and can even prove this acoustically through the imposing thud when stepping on them. They’re the perfect complement to the otherwise boring jeans and the most necessary element of any military costume.

A regularly returning slave (Sascha) literally worships my Dehner boots. While boot licking often seems like a routine task in some sessions, this part is almost the highlight of the whole session for him.

As soon as he enters the room, he has to strip naked, get on his knees at the end of the room and try to feel my boots in the candlelight at the other end of the room. In any case, I can already tell that his cock is standing like a champ, even though he can’t really see much.

If there’s one rule in my profession, it’s to inspire the mental cinema. After all, the purely physical effects are now very interchangeable, especially with a subject like leather licking. With my fee, he could get those boots for himself at home.

Boots with all senses

But he doesn’t. Instead he sits tense in his corner and listens to my whispering, yet dominant voice: „You will slowly crawl towards my boots… slowly, because the journey is the goal, my little one.“

On the fluffy carpet, the ginger man in his late 40’s slowly begins to move and I see how his member wobbles slightly with each step, but loses none of its hardness. He’s still half a meter away from his beloved object of desire.

His eyes keep wandering up to my face and back down to my shiny boots. „You can smell the leather now, but you must not touch it.“

He dutifully follows my instructions, which immediately turns me on a little. So nice when boys do what they’re told!

„While you smell, stretch your beautiful white butt up so I can get excited by the view.“ He obeys and on top of that I see a drop of lust peeking out of his best piece. „If you’e so good, you may kiss my boots. But very gently at first!“

He makes a brief sound of excitement and then I hear his typical kissing sounds. After that he may kiss, caress and later also lick my boots in intervals and finally fondle them to his heart’s content.

He experiences my boots in all possible ways – smell, taste and feel. In addition, the subordinate position allows him to physically experience his adoration of the boots. For the finale, we make a reference to classic sex, as I shoot my semen on my boots and he must dutifully lick it up and come (as is proper) on the floor in front of his master.

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