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05/2018 Double Play – Between Two Leather Men

No hairdresser, handyman, financial advisor, or other service providers will ever be asked to organize a colleague so that two professionals can perform the service at the same time. In sexuality, of course, the situation is quite different. Double play exists.

Why is that? Quite simply: Because the journey is the destination. It’s the experience that counts, not what happens at the end. Anyone can do this at home.

Usually, after the first or second successful session, I’m confronted with the desire to potentiate the positive experiences by doubling myself. While in classical sexuality (i.e. naked in bed) the positive effect of doubling is basically limited to more opportunities to feel skin, in BDSM there are unexpected additional benefits due to the partly technical requirements of a session.

This is because one person is playing with the sub while the other prepares the next play setting, e.g. bondage, putting condoms over the dildos, or getting out the leather hanging cage and hanging it up. So there are no pauses that require patience, but the sub gets a non-stop experience in addition to the usual – and primarily perceived – advantages of two tops (e.g. double penetration).

Double play within SM

Also, by adding another person, I can work out the slave’s bond to me or play with it. For example: „I want you to offer your ass to my colleague so that he can take it properly so that he is happy. Remember that you are doing this for me – especially when it gets difficult.“

Then I always position myself in front of this spectacle while looking into my minion’s eyes. The real play then takes place in our eye contact and not on my minion’s buttocks, because that is only a means to an end.

As in other creative professions, when you add another person to the double play, the field of fantasy is of course much wider. I usually give the general direction, but my colleagues are simply top-notch when it comes to elaboration. I’ve already told you that all I have to do is say „dogplay“ and my colleague Master Alexander is ready with leash and collar and bubbling over with ideas: „I want to take him for a walk,“ „I want to train him,“ or „Let me throw sticks!“

Humiliation in double play

In pure humiliation games, this adds a whole new dimension, because nothing intensifies your humiliation like an audience – even if it is just one more leather man. For example:

Dominus: „Now you victims go over to my colleague, pull down your pants and show him your ugly little pill man.

The effect can be increased, of course, if I talk to my colleagues about the one I’m humiliating as if he weren’t even in the room.

Dominus: „Now Alexander, take a look at this junk version of a male member. What do you think?“

Alexander replies, while the victim is still dutifully ’showing off‘: „It’s a good thing he’s a fag, because he certainly couldn’t father children with it.

Dominus: „He sent me a picture of that weird plant when he first contacted me. I wonder if he thought that this misshapen little twig would somehow turn me on?“

Alexander: „Well, it does turn me on… to make fun of it!

We both laugh heartily and toast each other while our victim is still standing in front of us with his pants down and his penis between his fingertips.

Double play with leather

In games without humiliation, it is often enough for a sub to stand between us two leather men and have only our shiny and fragrant leather in his field of vision. Most of the time the material that represents dominance is licked and kissed.

The same goes for the common practice of bootlicking. Due to the double play, my submissive comes into a wonderful state of intoxication, which we doms can then really enjoy.

There is nothing more beautiful than a submissive who can really let herself go while enjoying her favorite BDSM element – forgetting the world around her and completely surrendering to you and the game of double play.

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