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10/2017 Intoxicating Tightness Of The Bondage Bag

„He puts a guy in a sack, tightens the straps, and collects money for it,“ an ignorant, cynical tongue would say. It may look like that on the surface, but logically there is much more going on. The attraction for the passive player is that, in addition to being „at the mercy“ of the dominant player, that the bondage bag also objectifies him.

The „depersonalization effect“ of a mask is completed by a leather or latex bag. If you have a leather fetish, for example, and use the appropriate „packaging material“, your partner becomes a „living fetish toy“ – and that is wonderful!

Hannes inside the bondage bag

Hannes is 31 years old, much younger than the average age of my clients, who are in their mid to late forties. He’s lying in front of me in the leather bondage bag, his hands are already tied in the tight side pockets of the sack and I’m just about to close the zipper and tie him up.

This ensemble of man and leather is lying on a couch on the floor, so that I can easily move my „leather package“ around the room later. His face is still free and he’s watching me with a benevolent and slightly submissive look.

The last thing he should see is my face before I put the mask on him. So I bend over him, look at him with happy eyes and smile slightly before pulling the mask over his face. The mask is perforated around the eyes to allow light to shine through, and there is an opening at the mouth to make it easier to breathe or insert …

I open the zippers at the nipples as well as in the genital area and take out the appropriate contents to play with. With two small vacuum pumps I suck his nipples and sensitize them in a dramatic way. His best part is tied off for now. My package is ready and prepared. A wonderful feeling spreads through me. Something between power and lust, coupled with an almost childlike joy of play.

Playing with the bondage bag

I push him in front of the wall of shelves, turn on the LED lights, bend over his mask and tell him while stroking his leather-clad body: „I expect you to do this for at least half an hour!“

I turn up the psychedelic-electro-ambient sound and leave the room by slamming the door. He knows from our previous conversation that I’m watching him via cam. When I notice strong movements, I go downstairs, but Hannes holds out. I see how the light reflects slightly on the leather and hear the corresponding sounds all the way up in the kitchen. His cock stays aroused for a surprisingly long time, because on the one hand he enjoys the tightness and on the other hand the task of holding out for me, because he knows that I’m happy when he manages the task for me.

Sometimes I wish I could dive directly into the daydreams of my path-twisting candidates, because the mind’s cinema is running at full speed and is supposedly more than just a loop of the same thoughts. The skilled user is able to drift into another level of consciousness (subspace). The thoughts here are compared to a state of intoxication, which can be reached without the addition of appropriate means, which I personally appreciate.

In between, I sneak into the room, stroke my cock to hardness and, to his surprise, push the same into his mouth. He nibbles quite well and gratefully. Then I leave him alone again.

„You did a good job, you little bastard!“ I enthusiastically call into the room 30 minutes later and begin to fondle my „leather package“ again. I now remove the vacuum pumps and there is a funny „plop“ sound. His little sweet pink nipples are now surrounded by a reddish circle and are hypersensitive due to the constant suction. A light touch is enough to make my partner squirm in his leather prison.

Edging in the bondage bag

Later, I’ll plug in my favorite toy: Electrostimulation. A clamp on each nipple… oh, that’s great, because Hannes is now constantly stimulated in that spot and I can devote myself to his best part. I also use electrostimulation here and place electro-pads on the „nice spot“.

Gently up and down on the special place for us men and the current, running through the oil warmed on my hands, hisses evenly through his penis or body. I complete the game with my specialty: dirty talk. I’m known for my ability to create an eccentric story between reality and fiction with my mouth and to let it rise to a tremendous firework of verbal action with appropriate word acrobatics.

„No, it’s not time yet,“ I say a little later with a smile and remove the pads.

I get the masturbator or also called „Fleshlight“. The device looks like an oversized flashlight, but instead of a light it has an opening made of extremely soft silicone, which when filled with oil creates a super erotic feeling around a man’s private parts. I hear my playmate moaning loudly the first time I put it on. Yes, that rocks!

I now have my living leather play pack well in hand and he can no longer resist. I start again with my „verbal thunderstorm“ and bring out past text passages, which I was able to identify from the moaning of my partner, as our „highlights“ and repeat them with new words and just a bit louder. Due to the good communication with him about my verbal actions and his moaning, edging is a real possibility.

This means in plain language: bring him to the edge of orgasm again and again and then stop. This may sound exhausting or negative at first – but it’s not. The return of the sperm has a positive physical effect – the control of the orgasm, of course, the psychological kick of power.

Twice I don’t allow him to climax. The clamps still attached to his nipples, supplying them with electricity, are now applied more and more intensely, and at the third attempt to reach the climax, I let it shoot out of him like a fountain. Wonderful… An orgasm caused by edging is not only much more intense, but also characterized by a much larger ejaculation – or a much larger amount of sperm.

Hannes is visibly exhausted when he opens the leather bag, so I only open the most constricting parts and we stay on the floor together for a while to come down again. Then it’s off to the shower.

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