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07/2021 Forced BDSM: The Desire for Coercion

Klicke hier, um die deutsche Version zu lesen: 07/2021 Forced BDSM: Die Lust am Zwang

Can forced BDSM work? Is it allowed to „force“ someone who wants to be coerced? Will it be a great experience for both parties? What is it like when BDSM and vanilla sex meet?

Forced BDSM with DennisXL

Over a year ago, just before the Corona crisis, a regular persuaded me to go to a hotel for a session. Along for the ride was porn starlet DennisXL: a tall, very athletic man with a nice cock and a calm, natural masculine demeanor.

When you meet a colleague in our industry, it’s usually because you’ve seen each other online many times before. The faces are more familiar than your own family. It’s not uncommon for us callboys to book each other, whether it’s for our own balance, to form groups for a well-groomed pack fuck, or simply because we want to know who’s behind the pictures.

Dennis and I got along right away and also knew our roles: He was the body experience with all his beauty, caressing the customer and letting him touch his beautiful body, while I was the perverted pig who claimed his right to sink his fist into the customer’s anus with „dirty talk“.

Dennis and I decided to have a coffee after the session and get to know each other better. „One day we’ll take pictures together,“ he said, but I just waved it off: „Oh, what’s the point?“

My passion is BDSM. It was great, but that a client wants a cuddle session and a fist in the ass from a master at the same time is rather rare and would also look a bit funny in a picture. People expect clear statements in pictures.

„You may be right,“ Dennis said, sipping his coffee. I couldn’t help but admire the beautiful vein running across his biceps, already moving sexily as he lifted his coffee cup.

„Unless you’d like to be submissive and deliciously masculine for me in the pictures, then we can work that out,“ I said with the most mischievous smile I had to offer.

„I don’t know about that, I’m more the boyfriend-experience type,“ he replied, and I noticed a spark of insecurity in the otherwise confident man.

The topic just fizzled out for a while. But then, the other day, it returned to his mind, because I received the following message: „When we take our picture, it’s okay for me to be your sub“. I thought to myself: If I can put this little piece of shit over my knee and spank his firm, slightly hairy ass, then fuck how the photos turn hour! Now I’m glad he kept repositioning the camera and pressing the self-timer.

A game between professionals

Lightly dressed, Dennis arrives with the most charming smile you can imagine. While I’ve been struggling with the heavy leather for hours as usual, I see him jumping around my apartment stark naked. It’s wonderful to see everything dangling between his legs.

„We start with a photo in the hallway. Now stand behind me, cuddle up to daddy and I take your cock in my hand, so that you know right away who is the boss here“.

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Sure, we both smile a little at my announcement, but the latent eroticism of this burgeoning power imbalance is clear to both of us. Later, when I look at the pictures for the first time, I realize that he really has just fazed out the cute boy.

Little by little I introduce him to the submissive role: „You have to feel this, otherwise you won’t radiate it. I’m going to put you in the situation in a very practical way. You will take three slaps and then feel yourself into the role again.“ He agrees.

I take off one of my leather gloves, grab his full hair and slap him hard. He is only slightly surprised but takes it. My second slap is accompanied by a very angry look on his face and the words, „You’re my little bitch now – remember that.“ The third and final slap comes as a surprise, right after the second: „And now you’re going to hold your ass up to the camera so the world can see right up your hole.“

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He does it quite decently, but I’m not satisfied yet: „Both hands on the ass cheeks and pull the buttocks apart. Oh, leave it – I’d better do it myself.“ I notice how his original stiffness has turned into suppleness. He no longer smiles sheepishly, but lets me bend him slightly and please him much more.

Forced BDSM in action

„Now some handcuffs to make you feel even deeper that you have nothing more to say for the time being.“ The commanding tone comes to me calmly and routinely – it works.

As I pose with my face close to his well-groomed hole, I take a good look at his entrance. Inevitably, perverse thoughts come to my mind: „So this is your hot crack that’s so beautifully poked by horny guys in porn? Yummy!“ Immediately after pressing the self-timer, I check what this crack smells like. Oh! Pretty clean? So the little horny bitch has rinsed their fuck hole just in case. I guess we’ve moved past taking „just a picture“…

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I tie his hands behind his back and throw him over my chair so that his hole looks into the camera. Smiling, I start to flick his beautiful rosette with my middle finger, making sure that you can hear little claps. I see him twitch. It’s not really painful yet, but it prepares him well.

„Let it twitch, your hole. Come on, show me how it can twitch!“ He tenses his sphincter a bit, and although there’s not much to see, I’m happy he follows the command. The leather paddle comes into play and I aim the narrow side directly at his rosette. Now there’s real movement in his muscular butt and I get hornier and hornier.

According to the golden BDSM rule of „carrot and stick“, I like his hole a bit and then beat it again. I drum with the leather paddle on his wet man-pussy until I can already see the first pink discolorations in the skin around his rosette. How exciting!

I aim the paddle directly at the center of his ass and get even more excited because this is a bit more painful for my newbie. As I continue, we really get to his limit and he twitches a little more. But just twitching is not enough for me, because despite the gag, the bitch can still scream a little for me. So I hit harder until the tight ass finally loses his composure and starts to whimper.

Very good, now Daddy is really horny.

A few more introductory games with his cock and balls follow.

Forced BDSM: Blow my cock!

Finally, I say to him: „Now you really have to blow me, or I’m gonna explode! (Yes, there’s a video of this.)

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He dutifully gets down on his knees in front of me. With great pleasure, I take his beautiful face and press it on my cock. I look down and realize that he’s now fully hard, too.

My cock circles his face and his pretty mouth is wide open, „You want it?“ He just nods, „I can’t hear you, do you want it?“

He now says loudly „Yes“ and gets to swallow my pipe directly as a reward. Gladly I provoke his throat with my cock and push the head down hard, making the beautiful guy gag. His submissive look and his tongue sticking out on command also tempted me to cum on it.

After a few minutes he regains his composure and says to me, as always, matter-of-factly and dryly: „Yes, that was exciting.“ Man, he is cute – really!

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My conclusion: Yes, it is possible to approach BDSM together if there is a latent interest. Empathy and clear communication make it morally possible and then also promote an excellent orgasm. It always depends on the situation, though. Here, it’s about a mutual conquest and about us both finding out something about ourselves.

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