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10/2019 Nipple Play, My Favorite Game

As I mentioned before, the nipples are my favorite part of my partner’s body to play with. Nowhere else can you reach your partner so obviously and at the same time in such a beautifully subtle way. What’s more, nipple play doesn’t need much.

Personally, I like the very small, innocent pink buttons best, but I also appreciate the big ones for their resilience. The large nipples usually only get big after a lot of play.

Enlarge them through nipple play

A fact that many people don’t know: your body actually physically adapts to your sexuality. Anally and orally passive men can actually increase their „entrances“ during training if they have „suitable“ play partners.

Another tip from me: if you have a long cock with a strong curvature that you don’t like, always tuck it into your pants in the opposite direction. Do this for a year, and then marvel at the straightness compared to previous photographic evidence. In practice, however, it is difficult because the little bugger always wants to return to its favorite position, depending on the curvature. Even if the foreskin is too tight, it doesn’t have to be cut off right away. Often a cream and masturbation are enough. Just ask a modern doctor.

Nipple Play – BDSM Brustwarzen Folter an weißem Mann mit Collar und Vakuum Pumpe

Classic nipple play

Getting back to nipple play, the ultimate evergreen or even unbeaten opening of any encounter is of course pinching and pulling the nipples with your fingers. However, after a while, this game becomes difficult with small nipples. Even with the bigger ones everything gets a little bit wet and slippery, so you have to resort to harder means to increase the game.

I think wooden clamps are great because they stick better to the sensitive „body parts“. Take your time and let the clamps work for a while during nipple play. Maybe toy with something else in the meantime? When you return, the pressure will have sunk the clamps so deep into the skin that all you have to do is tap them lightly to get an effect.

This is great because you can then play around with one hand and move the whole breast back and forth with the other. The movement of the breast also moves the clamps back and forth on the nipples and gives a nice tug.

I usually use a vacuum pump for my experts to sensitize the skin by sucking it in. This often creates a nice circle around the nipples (see picture above).

Nipple clamps attached to a chain are also handy because then you only need one hand to force the nice stimulation, leaving the other hand free to play with yourself. The chain unfolds its full effect when you lift it. If you pull on it, your partner may still be playing with the best part.

Nipple play after torture

When removing clamps that have previously worked the nipples, you now have the advantage that the small pleasure spots have become hypersensitive. It’s usually enough to stroke the tips lightly. Your partner will thank you with exuberant reactions.

If I like my partner, it’s always fun to nibble on the nipples while holding the other’s body with both hands. After removing the clamps, sucking on the nipples of the bound partner is the highlight of every session for me.

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